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We live in a world where people are less trusting, more cynical, and full of skepticism. Corporate loyalty is a thing of the past. Belief in government has eroded away. Everyone around us is confused, overwhelmed, and more difficult to influence and lead. Now more than ever, charisma is a vital and critical life skill. Can charisma be taught? Tests of two interventions. Restaurant Tap Water Test Joke The challenge is that some think they have the Rizz (charisma) but don’t. Just because you can ...

Do You Attract or Repel Others? It’s Either The Rizz or Fizz. The skill of charisma can propel you into leadership and success. When someone is charismatic, they can connect, bond, and lead everyone and anyone. Charisma allows you to be more efficient and effective. Think about this. It could be you if others aren’t responding to you or your influence. Sure we like to say it is them, but when you do not influence others, are empowered by you, or even want to help you – it is you. Remember: When...

Have you ever noticed how some people can lead without effort? People instantly like them and want to be around them. Have you seen them enter a room, and everyone notices? Have you seen people always get what they want, and everyone around them wants to give it to them? How do they command attention and influence with everyone they meet? This is the power of charisma, and you will see that charisma can and must be learned. Rizz is Oxford's word of the year for 2023 Charisma is the ability to e...

When negotiating, you have to be prepared for anything. You need to know the ins and outs, the wants and needs of both sides. The more you prepare, the more knowledge you have, and the better deal you will get. How to Spot a Manipulator in 5 Seconds or Less Negotiation is part of everyday life. As they say - You deserve what you negotiate. The challenge is negotiation has changed. Many people are using some old-style, outdated, cheesy tactics that need to be retired. Join me for this week’s po...

Knowing when to shut up and stop talking in persuasion is a major blunder. Are you able to take their temperature, gauge their interest, or respond to their needs? Are you the data dumper (Vomit) and overwhelming them with too much information? What signs or signals are you looking for when wrapping it up and asking for their business? When Is It Time To Shut-Up? By paying attention to these cues, you can determine exactly when it is time to close the sale or get the yes. You must continually t...

You are trying to influence someone to change and improve their life. It will enhance every aspect of their life, BUT all you get is resistance. What is going on? How can you get others to accept worthwhile positive change that will benefit them? Where does this resistance come from? Let’s explore this resistance and those common reasons why people may resist positive change. For more info about John visit his website here. Want to get others to want to change? Want to make change stick in you...

Influencing and motivating children requires a different set of persuasion tools. Their brain is not fully developed until they are 25. This means you have to adapt to their way of thinking and adjust your influence tools to them. Why Do Teenagers Take More Risks Want more tips and techniques on How to Persuade Kids, Teenagers, And Those Without Frontal Lobes? Join me for this week’s podcast, where you will discover the ten specific tools you can use to persuade those younger people, whether it...

How do you build value so you don’t have to fight on price? Only rookies fight on price. We all know you get what you pay for – so why is everyone fighting on price when only 6 percent of our purchases are based on price? If they say it is too expensive – you have blown your presentation. So, how do you create value or demonstrate the benefits of our product or service? Here are a few ways to get started on your path to sell value, not price. Do you build the value or vomit the features of you...

I know you love to use Powerpoint. Those slides make everything so much easier, and you won’t forget anything. You don’t need as much preparation time, BUT your audience hates it, and it is not persuasive. Let’s discuss the top 3 complaints about Powerpoint and how to fix them. So, Why Did Jeff Bezos Ban Powerpoint From His Meetings? Do you want to know more about the science of visuals and how to rock a presentation using PowerPoint and being persuasive? Death by PowerPoint Join me for this ...

Have you noticed the dramatic changes in presentations, communication, and training? The focus used to be on education. The latest research reveals that we need to spend more time grabbing your audience’s attention and maintaining their interest. Creating and delivering persuasive presentations can be challenging. Anyone can inform, but is it influential? Does your message have an impact? Is it too complicated? Join us for this week’s podcast on Quickly Simplify Your Message - Davina Stanley I...

Is silence overused and abused? Yes, but you still need to use. When it is used in the wrong way or with the wrong person, you can come across as unprofessional and create the wrong type of tension. The goal of silence is to indicate that you are approaching the end of the negotiation, and the silence is the signal to make a decision. Listen for a few keys to help you use (not misuse) silence to seal the deal. The 5 Core Skills Of Hostage Negotiators Want to know more about silence and other ne...

The thought of using the "dumb is smart" technique in persuasion and sales may seem counterintuitive because your prospect wants to deal with the expert. This strategy has two parts. This is the ability to simplify your message and simplify your presence. Sometimes, your presence with a prospect can be too complicated or arrogant. Believe your own lies Join me for this week’s podcast on Dumb Is More Persuasive Than Smart - Dumb Is Smart. We will explore how to use this technique to bond with yo...

I want to explore ways to resist another person’s unethical persuasive attempt on this podcast. This is good to know for you as a person and as a persuader. As a person, this information will help you resist unwanted persuasive attempts. How to build a habit in 5 steps, according to science As a persuader, you will see some of this resistance or behavior in your prospects and need to adjust your presentation. So how do you resist persuasion or even manipulation? Join me for this week’s podcast...

Influential individuals have the ability to understand nonverbal cues. By learning to read body language, you can gain insights and adjust your approach accordingly. Look for clusters of these nonverbal signals, as one alone may not provide a complete picture. 8 Ways To Identify A Liar Why do people lie? Want to know how to spot a liar? Would it be beneficial to be able to detect deception? Discover additional ways to spot deception and leverage it during the persuasion process. Join me for t...

Join me for this week’s podcast on How To Influence As The Underdog (Dark Horse) - The David And Goliath Effect. I will explain the David and Goliath Effect and how to leverage it to persuade with power. I will explain additional techniques on how to use these concepts to get more support and increase your sales. Coffee Cup Test Charisma is the 20% that gives you 80% of your results. Charisma is the skill that will give you the quickest return on your time and dramatically increase your success...

Charismatic individuals and psychopaths have mastered the ability to influence others. Both have the tools and traits to get others to see their point of view. 10 insights into the mystery of charisma The Quality That Makes Some Psychopaths So Successful Those are the similarities, but there are also many differences. Join me for this week’s podcast: Are You Charismatic Or A Psychopath? You will discover the differences Between Charisma and Psychopaths. We will also discuss how to know someone...

Why do people tend to resist you? For some reason, the moment they sense you are trying to sell them or persuade them to do something – they go in the opposite direction. So why are you getting resistance? Are you causing it or is in coming from your prospect? Join me for this week’s podcast on Selling through Resistance and Stigma - Interview With Franco Perez. You will discover how to deal with resistance, stigmas, objections, and the new form of communication. For more info about Franko vis...

Studies show how people use, react to, configure, and occupy the space around them. We all want our own space and feel uncomfortable when people violate our personal territory. While it may sound overly obvious, research shows that many persuaders get too familiar too fast. Disrespect for your audience’s personal space—especially when you are first meeting them – you can’t build rapport and cause resistance. Many persuaders don’t know they are violating their audience’s space. They may think, f...

Selling is changing every day. This is due to advancements in technology, shifts in consumer trust, and evolving markets. You speaks to me - Effects of generic-you in creating resonance between people and ideas Join me for this week’s podcast on The Trifecta (3 Traits) of a Perfect Sales Person. Now you know what has changed in the sales world – Discover the 3 traits and characteristics of a perfect salesperson. Find out the key area you can develop to change your sales success. OFFER OF THE W...

The Mum Effect refers to the phenomenon where individuals in a group or crowd are less likely to help a person in need when other people are present. This happens because individuals assume that someone else will take action, leading them to do nothing. The Mum Effect also occurs when you have food in your teeth or your zipper is down, and no one tells you. Praise for intelligence can undermine children's motivation and performance. How do you influence others to help you without getting stuck ...

Adapting your selling approach to customers who are high in Influencer (DISC) and have an Expressive type personality can be beneficial in building trust and increasing your chances of persuasion and influence. How do you know if a person is this personality type, and how do you adapt your persuasion? Baseball reveals that specialists excel after leaving comfort zones Constantly adjust your persuasion approach based on your prospect's style and needs. This will increase your chances of influenc...

Adapting your selling approach to customers who are high in Steadiness (DISC) and have a C-type personality can be beneficial in building trust and increasing your chances of persuasion and influence. How do you know if a person is this personality type and how do you adapt your persuasion? The unconscious mind can detect a liar–even when the conscious mind fails Always adjust your persuasion approach based on your prospect's specific preferences and needs. This will increase your chances of in...

Adapting your selling approach to customers who are high in Dominant (DISC) and have a Red (Color Code) personality can be beneficial in building trust and increasing your chances of influence. How do you know if a person is this type of personality? How to make self-affirmation work, based on science Always adjust your persuasion approach based on your prospect's specific preferences and needs. This will increase your chances of influence. Want to discover how to read, understand and adapt to ...

Adapting your selling approach to customers who are high in Conscientiousness (DISC) and have a white (Color Code) personality can be beneficial in building trust and increasing your chances of influence. How do you know if a person is this type of personality? The Psychological Study of Smiling Always adjust your persuasion approach based on your prospect's specific preferences and needs. This will increase your chance of influence. Want to discover how to read, understand and adapt to this pe...